A couple of my college roommates do what they call the "best summer ever" each year. It's basically a plan for their summer so that they & their kids can deal with the boredom that tends to come with those long & lazy summer days. They plan weekly themes & then do different art projects, science experiments, field trips, etc. based around that theme. Each year, they seem to have a great time. I've thought about doing the same thing, but my kids are a little older than theirs...and I'm pretty sure--since my kids are big time social butterflies--that they would think I was trying to torture them if I told them we were going to do an art project rather than playing with friends. But, I wanted to do something to make sure this summer was a fun one with lots of great activities that they would enjoy. When I was thinking about this back in May, we were having some serious sibling rivalry & fighting issues. Well, okay, we always have those issues--but they seemed to be really bad in May for whatever reason. So, I decided to combine my "best summer ever" with some behavior requirements. Mike & I called a family meeting, and together--with the kids--we came up with our plan for our best summer ever...

First of all, we came up with some rules. The kids actually came up with most these rules on their own...
Then the kids decided on some rewards that they would like for obeying those rules...
And then they came up with some consequences for not obeying the rules (and the consequences that the kids came up with were actually a little more intense than the consequences I was thinking of, but--shhhhh--don't tell them that.) And, yes, I realize I spelled "consequences" wrong. I was the only member of my family not to win a school spelling bee. Sigh...

The plan was to break the summer up into two-week periods. At the beginning of each two-week period, the kids would decide what reward they wanted to work toward. Then, for each day they obeyed all the rules, they would get a tally mark. For each day they didn't obey the rules, they wouldn't receive a tally mark. During the two-week period, the kids had to accumulate 10 tally marks in order to receive the reward that they had picked. So, that meant they could only lose 4 tally marks during the entire two weeks in order to still get the reward. We have been keeping tally sheets like this one for each reward. As you can see, the boys have barely made it sometimes...
This program has been working like a charm! It's amazing the power that one of those little tally marks holds, especially when a child has already lost a few & is close to losing the reward. They willingly do their chores, reading minutes & are actually getting along fairly well with each other!
The first reward the kids wanted to work toward at the beginning of June was a trip to the movies to see Madagascar 3. As I mentioned in an earlier post, we don't take our kids to the movies that much. We're more of a Netflix & Redbox kind of family. So, going to the movies--especially when it involves getting popcorn, drinks & treats from the concession stand--was really something to work for. Of course I didn't take any pictures of our first fun little reward, so this is all that you get...
The kids (and the parents) loved the movie & highly recommend it!
The next reward--which the kids worked toward during the second half of June--was a trip to the splash pad...
This place is only about five minutes from our house & is tons of fun. I don't know why we don't go there more often?!? They have the actual splash pad and then they have a little lazy river as well. Viv wasn't so sure about the water at first. What's new, right?
But, the boys jumped right in and had a blast...
Vivvie eventually warmed up to the water a little bit, but only when it didn't shoot any higher than her belly button...
Connor's favorite place was right in the middle. Yes, he's in there--somewhere...
Cohen & Aiden enjoyed karate chopping the water...
And after being pummeled by water in the middle of the splash pad for what seemed like forever, Connor finally took a break in the little lazy river...
Here's the cute little scaredy cat again...
Oh, and those towel super heroes that we encountered at the beach in California showed up at the splash pad as well...
When it was almost time to head home, Vivienne finally decided that the water was okay--as long as Mom or Dad was right by her...
She even played in it a little bit & walked right through it a couple of times...
It was such a fun day! It was so fun that we've decided that we need to go there on a regular basis, not just for a reward. The kids and I are planning to head back next week in fact.
The latest reward that the kids have been working towards (for the beginning of July) was a campout in the backyard. That campout is actually happening right now as I type. I'm (obviously) roughing it indoors with our little princess while the boys & Mike sleep outside. Darn! {{Please note the sarcasm}}
The fellas couldn't decide if they wanted to sleep in a tent or sleep on the trampoline, so they actually combined the two & pitched the tent on top of the trampoline. You also get a sneak peek at our almost completed backyard in this picture too (a post on that is coming later when *everything* is finally done)...
See, I told you--the tent is *really* on top of the trampoline...
After their "camp" was all set up, Connor & Aiden invited a couple of their friends over to make s'mores around the (still-not-complete) firepit...
Crazy kiddos (and Dad)...
After that, the friends headed home & our family just hung out around the campfire for awhile. Love these silly boys...
Then Mike & the kids played duck-duck-goose (sorry for the crappy picture quality)...
And freeze tag in the dark...
And then it was off to bed. I just stuck my head out the backdoor a few minutes ago & everything was quiet as could be, so I think they're all already asleep.
So, that's what we've been doing to make this summer "our best summer ever." And, it really has been. The kids are happier & so are the parents, plus we always have something fun to look forward to. I think this will probably become a new family tradition of ours. Although, next year, I think we'll probably try to do a reward each week rather than every two weeks. Two weeks just seems like a long time to kids. And, if we're doing one reward a week, that just means more fun things to look forward to! I think we'll continue with the two-week periods through this summer though since that's what the kids are already used to. Right now, they are currently working on earning a trip to Lagoon at the end of this month. Hope they can make it! I can't believe the kids head back to school in about a month!?! Where has the time gone? --Lindsay